Archive for the 'Phone Sex' Category
Sunday, January 3rd, 2010
A Guide To Great Phone Sex
Today I thought I would add some tips that would make calling me for phone sex an easier transition into doing if you still have hesitations about placing that first call. This video does provide a lot of good pointers. The whole idea of phone sex is the anonymity and the ability to be open with what you want to say and talk about.
I can understand being shy up front, honestly I can. It’s not easy calling up a stranger and telling her that you want to sniff her butt or lick her pussy, or see her take a big cock while you stroke your little dick. These are all sensitive topics and we don’t want to be laughed at (unless we like that kind of humiliation) about them. So it’s always good to go into it with wanting to get to know the woman that you are calling, at least a little bit. You should also be willing to let her get to know a little about you. Building up a really great relationship with someone that you have phone sex with is not really for the woman’s benefit, it’s not like “dating” or traditional sex, but it really is beneficial for you to have someone that you are comfortable with telling all of your naughtiest fantasies and desires.
There is something really comforting about calling up Ms Nicole and blowing off steam for a few minutes before we jump right into it. Plus the better I get acquainted with you, the better equipped I will be to know how to turn you on and start pushing those buttons in just the right ways. I love to learn about my callers. I want you to feel special and understood. I do enjoy when someone takes the time to let me into their private world of their fetishes and explain their wonderful fascination with this very private and erotic turn on for them. It really helps me to understand you. Some of my favorite callers are the ones that I can chat with a relaxed regular tone outside of exploring the fetish play itself and delving into why they really like it.
On top of all of that, it really eliminates any room for people being rude to each other. A lot of times men message me or email me and say things that are just right to the point. There is no hello, how are you? or even excuse me can I have a minute of your time. They just want to bombard me with their demands and then expect me to fulfill their dirty requests via IM. Now, you wouldn’t want me to start barking orders at you or spewing profanities would you? Of course not! You would never even pick up the phone to call me if I treated people with such little respect. So why do you think that talking to a phone sex specialist or even a woman who runs an erotic website of herself with such little respect? Do you think that is going to warm her up to pleasing you? Absolutely not.
I expect respect because that is exactly what you will get when you contact me. I do not judge YOU for your deviant behavior, so you are in no place to judge me because I choose to make my living doing sex work and providing you a play space to indulge your fantasies and perhaps jerk off to my pictures and videos. Of course if you harshly judge yourself, then naturally you are going to judge others and their openly sexual behaviors. But this is a judgment free zone, so let’s leave our hang ups at the keyboard and let’s play nice.
I do truly enjoy making a man have an orgasm, or not depending on whether or not he is into denial. But making a man cum is like a job well done. If I can make you cum while you are screaming your head off, even better lol. I like it when I get that loud raunchy vocal guttural groaning cum that some of you make when I have your cock so swollen you feel like the head is going to blow off. And then all of a sudden… it does. In a great big geyser of jizz all over the bed, floor, desk, or hands lol. That shows me that I know what the fuck I’m doing when you are on a phone sex call with me.
So you are going to have to trust me just a little bit and let me in. I promise you that you won’t be disappointed. Here’s to great phone fucking and dirty talking!
Thursday, December 3rd, 2009
My Phone Sex Business Going Forward 2010
Wow, it’s December already, I can hardly believe it. It seems like just yesterday I was sitting here sipping a glass of pink champagne ringing in the new year and now this one is about to come to a close. It did really fly by. This has been a very crazy year for everyone, for the economy, and especially for phone sex here on niteflirt. This has been a year of many changes for me personally. I always seem to adapt and keep on moving right along, forging ahead with any new developments in my business. It has kept me going all these years on the internet bringing phone sex and cam sessions to people who enjoy it.
I’ve had my ever dedicated foot boy Mr. Wimpy C who has filled my closet up very nicely with all of the shoes and flip-flops I have desired, and lots of other guys who have played paid email games, paid tributes to me, and shared all of their phone sex fantasies. My faithful regular callers who no matter what, I am always happy to talk to and catch up with them and play out “most” new fantasies they might have. So while we have all experienced the bumps in the road with niteflirt trying to revamp their websites and bring us a world class service for both you and I to enjoy, I know that in the next few months we are both going to be pleasantly surprised with the amount of fun we have during our calls together. Niteflirt is poised to come back with a lot of new features to make it easier for me to provide an excellent customer experience to you.
So what is in store for the new year since we are on the cusp of it? Well, I plan on providing a more well-rounded fetish phone sex experience. I suppose from my marketing angle over the last couple of years, it has sort of pigeon-holed me into doing only a few types of calls, mainly ass worship. I have been providing callers with phone sex fantasies for seven years; six of which were focused on fetish and BDSM. My repertoire and my skills as a phone sex mistress have grown considerably over all of that time and it would be a shame to not provide you with a larger array of fantasies that showcase all that I can offer you.
This is not just about BBW Worship. In fact, it’s very little of what I really do on a regular basis. It’s all part of growth and I know that just because you may like BBW or may just like me because I’m Big Butt Nicole, at the heart of it, you have a fantasy and I am here to fulfill it. What I won’t do is any kind of low-rent types of fantasies. There are plenty of women who provide services of the more fuck and suck slutty nature and I have no doubt that they are absolutely fabulous at providing that type of fantasy to you. What I would like you to come to expect from me is a more sophisticated, intelligent, fetish phone Mistress who provides stellar phone sex sessions to you.
You will see over the next few days my phone sex listings going through transformations and what I will be providing will be much more evident by how each listing will read and this way you can be fully-informed. I know that with each and every one of you, there is a special little thing that makes you tick, and I know how to get in there and bring those desires out in you. Sometimes you might be pleasantly surprised to find that you had needs you didn’t even know about.
Call me when you want a phone sex session done right.
Saturday, February 7th, 2009
Phone Sex Fun
Phone sex is meant to be fun. Sex in general is meant to be fun. It’s disappointing when you are a pro phone sex girl and you get a dud call from a guy who probably wants to get off really badly but he cannot utter the words that he needs to in order to tell you what he wants. I try to ask what kind of phone sex some of you guys want and I don’t really get much help sometimes. It’s on rare occasions but sometimes they are just too quiet and it can get frustrating trying to figure out what you want. I don’t know, I”m not in this business to make people mad or feel bad, I’m here to give a fantasy but as good as my intuition is and I’m usually good at picking up what it is that people want, sometimes people are just shut down and it’s impossible to get any feedback out of them. Then they curse me out in feedback when I tell them I can’t do the call. It’s just not fair and I don’t think I should have to suffer a loss of points and reputation for something that was clearly his fault. But oh well. If you are a guy who likes the fat chicks like me and would like to have some really good, mind blowing phone sex and you like to have lots of naughty, dirty talk then I’m your phone sex girl.
Thursday, November 27th, 2008
What kind of phone sex?
What kind of phone sex do you want exactly? This post is prompted tonight by some feedback I received on my account. I knew it was coming from the guy, it was just a matter of time before he decided to get pissy about it and exercise the one thing that makes him feel powerful over me. He called and he was playing around being an asshole, not knowing what he wanted and I don’t tolerate being irritated. Sometimes I get phone calls from people who just don’t know what they want and they want me to choose for them what is going to get them off.
So let’s say Joe-blow decides he likes my pictures and clicks my call button. He really hasn’t given any consideration to the types of phone sex I offer especially on the listing he’s chosen to call me on. I mean that’s all fine and good, maybe he’s not a fetish guy. Maybe he just likes plain old vanilla phone sex with the huffing and puffing and oooh aaah oh baby oh baby I’m gonna cum. Is it so hard to tell a phone sex operator that? Do you really want someone else’s tastes to dictate what you get during your phone call? I know it’s hard to really think about things when the blood is pumping to your member but you don’t have to come up with a whole syllabus for the call but something like I love worshipping asses or I love oral sex would give me a good indication of where you want to go with your call.
Time and time again I find that when I encounter these calls I will start off with a topic of my choosing only to have the guy change topic midway through the call. Make up your mind and tell me what you like. Chances are when you watch porn there are things you fantasize about so why not share them with the person who is going to get you off? I’m not your girlfriend or your wife so our relationship is not on the line if you tell me you like some kinky perverted shit. That little effort of speaking up can reap you so many rewards. Instead of being a bitch and saying some bullshit in my feedback after you get hung up on because you were too much of a pussy or a retard to do a call with me.
Saturday, November 22nd, 2008
Fullblown Fetish Phone Sex
It’s all about fullblown fetish phone sex today. Yes I am a BBW and most of my callers enjoy phone sex with me and exploring their fantasies about sex with a fat woman, this is true. It is not however the bulk of the types of calls I do. In fact most of my callers are guys who have a foot and shoe fetish, along with pantyhose. The other ones are the guys who love big ass worship and smothering by a huge fat butt. I really run the gammut when it comes to the types of calls I do. There is belly and belly button fetish, sneezing fetish although I am not so sure how many people really call for this type any more. It seems to have phased out with my callers at least.
The ones that I have the most fun with are the sissy boys and the cuckolds and total loser boys. They are the funniest calls ever and I get to laugh in their ear, say humiliating things to them about how inadequate they are, how they aren’t real men and they love it. They kiss my ass and call me princess. You don’t have to be a bitchy barbie teen princess to have guys eating out of your hands, you just have to know how to control their little dicks lol. It really doesn’t matter what you like (well as long as it’s legal) I like having phone sex so let’s get busy baby!
Thursday, October 2nd, 2008
I Like Doing Phone Sex
It’s no surprise, I like doing phone sex. LOL I named my phone sex site, ilikephonesex.com so that should be a prime indication that I like what I do. I super uber enjoy what I do for a living. It’s so much fun. I get to humiliate all of the little sissie wimps who call me and ask me to dress them up and tell me how pretty and sexy they look. I’m here to be the one who tells them they look ridiculous and like a silly sissy. Even better is being able to rub it in the faces of little dick losers that I am a size queen and love the bigger, thicker, cock of black men. How I love having sex with more than one man at the same time too. Their little lipstick dicks get so hard, tee hee lol. It’s just the sheer fun of having one of the best jobs, doing phone sex.
Do you want to do it with someone who doesn’t like it?
Saturday, July 5th, 2008
Worship BBW goddess ass
Today I felt like a BBW goddess. I spent the afternoon sunning my big body out at the lake for the 4th of july. I love being in nature and it felt good to have the sun all over my body and feeling the breeze against my skin made me feel sexy and alive. This is the first time I have taken pictures in more than a year. I will be posting more BBW pics in the coming months as I am feeling my drive and desire coming back to shoot photos and make sure I keep it fun. I will be taking full advantage of the remaining summer months. SO be sure to come and check out this blog and my other BBW blog to see the latest pics and news. Remember, I’m available all week for BBW phone sex.
Sunday, June 15th, 2008
BBW phone sex: life of a phone sex girl
Hi to all my phone sex freakos. I thought I would give you a little something to tease you and get you all excited. If you weren’t thinking about my bbw ass before this clip, I’m sure you are thinking about it now haha. I was searching through all of my old videos to get ideas for new bbw vids to make to sell and came across this one and was like DAMN I forgot that I could wiggle my big booty like that! So I am positive that this will definitely get the blood pumping to all of my BBW phone sex callers who adore my big juicy booty. I have had a pretty quiet day. I sold my cute Razr cell phone on craigslist today because I cannot use my carrier anymore. I just remembered that I’m supposed to be going away for a weekend in August and hopefully I can also get a nice weekend away at Hampton beach sometime in July and if I don’t get a new cell carrier, I won’t be able to have cell phone sex with you guys.
Mobile phone sex is the only way that I can enjoy going away and still know that I can still earn a living while I’m out experiencing life. I have a new carrier in mind and I need to just now put the money together to get the new phone I am interested in. Bummer thing though, cause this is what makes it possible for me to offer you cheap phone sex. The fact that I can go anywhere. Although, it would be a little bit funny if I’m walking through the mall and having sissy phone sex with one of you guys haha. Oh well, just another day in the life of the saga of phone sex girls…
Call me, I’m laying in the bed with a chemise reading a book ready and waiting to have some dirty, hot phone sex with you!
Friday, January 18th, 2008
My guys love their princess on cam
So last night, I just got hit left and right with webcam calls on niteflirt. All of my favorite boys like FrenchMike, and phil and steve and a few other new guys made for a very profitable night for me. Ohhh and I can’t forget about my foot wimp! He’s my all time favorite lol. Thank you so much boys. I love teasing the bejeebies out of you lol. I love knowing that I’m always on your mind. I’m in my chat room again tonight and will be around all night long tonight, late night. Come in and chat with me. 
Friday, October 12th, 2007
Interesting observations amongst BBW phone girls
The other day was a rare occasion where I actually decided to take a look at some of the other phone listings in the BBW section here on niteflirt.com. I found some really interesting marketing strategies. Ever notice just how catty some of these women are over others? LOL I mean most of us are here minding our own business and someone out there is always hating on someone else.
I’ve always found it hilarious when a girl tries to belittle or put down someone because they have high-end styled phone listings, or they are more pretty or have better bodies etc… At this point in the game, that’s just stupid. It’s not a smart marketing tactic, it’s dumb. It makes you look catty. It’s like the girls who rag on what other girls wear when they do cam etc… It’s nobody’s business who wears what and who designs their listings as such, or who says what. When I am on cam I choose to be comfortable instead of sitting in clothes that are made for clubs or PVC or what have you. Bleh, yea real lady like to be sitting here perspiring waiting for a subbie boy to call. It’s not my fault that I don’t HAVE TO dress to the nines to impress people. It’s also not my fault that I don’t have to apply makeup like it’s spackle. Nor is it my fault that people are not comfortable in their own skin. If you are a BBW or big girl and you are doing webcam, it’s kind of ironic that you would get on cam and then try to hide your belly or your fat thighs as if you aren’t big. If you aren’t confident showing any part of your body, that will get the best of you. Me, I dress in my everyday clothes. I AM the girl next door. I am usually working, feeling cute, hanging out in my shorts or a nightie and just doing me. I’m a very busy girl and comfort is key.
Here’s the other thing… I can have the hottest listings on the site(not saying I do) but if I can’t sell myself, it really won’t make a difference now will it? And if I can sell myself but can’t close the deal on the phone then all the other stuff that got them to make that phone call wasn’t worth a shit either, wouldn’t you agree? If you have all the skills you need to make your money then what other people do shouldn’t bother you. BUT… inferiority and envy gets the best of people all the time. When you really stop to think about the behaviors I’ve discussed here, it’s nothing but pure, raw, jealousy lol. And it eats them up so much that they have to lash out at others because they can’t look or be like some people. The others are just jealous because either they can’t afford to pay to have someone design them a nice looking niteflirt page or they have no talent and skill of their own to design one for themselves.
A secure woman shouldn’t let any of this stuff get to her at all. A secure woman wouldn’t be looking to knock another secure woman down a notch or two. This is where the term hater comes in. So I just find it extremely funny when someone puts it into their own marketing spiel to try and gain an edge on the competition. It probably helps if you have your game on point. Anyway… LOL just some observations. I made a killing tonight doing cam and paid emails. Oooh, just love selling picture sets to the guys and raping their wallets with the tribute buttons. Makes life soo much easier. It’s nearly 7:00a.m. and I’ve got a day at the mall all mapped out with Ms. SassyBBW. Oh yes we are going to spend that money you boys send me, neener, neener, neener!!
