Sunday, January 3rd, 2010
A Guide To Great Phone Sex
Today I thought I would add some tips that would make calling me for phone sex an easier transition into doing if you still have hesitations about placing that first call. This video does provide a lot of good pointers. The whole idea of phone sex is the anonymity and the ability to be open with what you want to say and talk about.
I can understand being shy up front, honestly I can. It’s not easy calling up a stranger and telling her that you want to sniff her butt or lick her pussy, or see her take a big cock while you stroke your little dick. These are all sensitive topics and we don’t want to be laughed at (unless we like that kind of humiliation) about them. So it’s always good to go into it with wanting to get to know the woman that you are calling, at least a little bit. You should also be willing to let her get to know a little about you. Building up a really great relationship with someone that you have phone sex with is not really for the woman’s benefit, it’s not like “dating” or traditional sex, but it really is beneficial for you to have someone that you are comfortable with telling all of your naughtiest fantasies and desires.
There is something really comforting about calling up Ms Nicole and blowing off steam for a few minutes before we jump right into it. Plus the better I get acquainted with you, the better equipped I will be to know how to turn you on and start pushing those buttons in just the right ways. I love to learn about my callers. I want you to feel special and understood. I do enjoy when someone takes the time to let me into their private world of their fetishes and explain their wonderful fascination with this very private and erotic turn on for them. It really helps me to understand you. Some of my favorite callers are the ones that I can chat with a relaxed regular tone outside of exploring the fetish play itself and delving into why they really like it.
On top of all of that, it really eliminates any room for people being rude to each other. A lot of times men message me or email me and say things that are just right to the point. There is no hello, how are you? or even excuse me can I have a minute of your time. They just want to bombard me with their demands and then expect me to fulfill their dirty requests via IM. Now, you wouldn’t want me to start barking orders at you or spewing profanities would you? Of course not! You would never even pick up the phone to call me if I treated people with such little respect. So why do you think that talking to a phone sex specialist or even a woman who runs an erotic website of herself with such little respect? Do you think that is going to warm her up to pleasing you? Absolutely not.
I expect respect because that is exactly what you will get when you contact me. I do not judge YOU for your deviant behavior, so you are in no place to judge me because I choose to make my living doing sex work and providing you a play space to indulge your fantasies and perhaps jerk off to my pictures and videos. Of course if you harshly judge yourself, then naturally you are going to judge others and their openly sexual behaviors. But this is a judgment free zone, so let’s leave our hang ups at the keyboard and let’s play nice.
I do truly enjoy making a man have an orgasm, or not depending on whether or not he is into denial. But making a man cum is like a job well done. If I can make you cum while you are screaming your head off, even better lol. I like it when I get that loud raunchy vocal guttural groaning cum that some of you make when I have your cock so swollen you feel like the head is going to blow off. And then all of a sudden… it does. In a great big geyser of jizz all over the bed, floor, desk, or hands lol. That shows me that I know what the fuck I’m doing when you are on a phone sex call with me.
So you are going to have to trust me just a little bit and let me in. I promise you that you won’t be disappointed. Here’s to great phone fucking and dirty talking!
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